It is an ancient tradition in the Church to have masses offered for specific intentions. You can ask for Masses for your intentions to be said at Quarr Abbey, even if you cannot be present. When you make your offering please indicate your name and the name of the person(s) for whom you wish Mass to be offered. Feel free to indicate a preferred date(s) if you wish. The minimum offering in England should be of the order of £10-£20, unless otherwise agreed. If you wish for acknowledgement, please say so. The stipend offered for the mass is not a in anyway a measure of its spiritual value which is infinite. To request a mass to be offered for your intention you may write to: Request for Mass Offering, Quarr Abbey, Ryde, Isle of Wight, PO33 4ES. Cheques should be made out to "Quarr Abbey"
You may read more on mass offerings here.